Dating female smokers
For me, in a dating-context, being a smoker gives you a pretty big disadvantage.To put that in perspective, if you marry a smoker at age 30, and they keep smoking until they die 50 years later, then we're talking more than a million dollars up in smoke. But of course, smokers are substantially less likely to become that old, although early-death is also not precisely a plus in a spouse.But if you meet someone who smokes, you shouldn’t outright say, “No, I would never date a smoker.” When smoking triggers a physical reaction If you want to find a good relationship, the person you end up with will inevitably have some traits or engage in some behaviors that you don’t like.Note that some men and women have a strong physical reaction to the smell of smoke, causing near-gagging or stomach-turning.More young women are smoking, as rates among young men continue to fall.
I can’t take the smell, it also really bothers my eyes and lungs. It might be hard, or seem like a hassle, but look at it like this; they try to smell good for you. If you want to smoke, let your non smoking partner know and walk away. If you want to quit, don’t do it for your partner, do it for you. He’s admittedly been going through a rough patch, but I like him enough I’d like to see him through it if I can.
Men aged between 25-34 have given up smoking in the largest numbers, with 26 per cent of them smoking in 2014, down from 30 per cent in 2013.
Of men aged 16-24, the proportion who smoke has dropped from 26 per cent to 25 per cent.
I've dated countless women and it has always amazed me how little they know about men.
If nothing else, this blog is an outlet for voicing my astonishment at the typical female's ignorance of the male mindset.I have a lot of close friends who smoke and it drives me crazy, it’s such a deal breaker for me... I mentioned meeting James in a recent blog, and that he breaks a deal breaker. He’s quitting, but with how hard it is I still label him as a smoker. Don’t expect them to quit for you, or ask them to quit for you.