Dating men like large women
That said, it's hard to be objective when someone is explaining why you don't give them an erection.With that in mind, I asked a group of anonymous men who refuse to date fat women to try and explain their feelings to me.
But after all, unlike Luxy, Reddit is not a platform for millionaires.Ironic given that, if you ask most men to pick out a girl who's a size 14 they'd probably point at a dress size 22 - brainwashed by the media to think that anything over a size 10 is plus size and quite in the dark about what real sizes look like on real women.And yet, some of the hottest women I know are 'curvy' - and leave most thin girls for dead in the sexy stakes. We are constantly fed with the message that bigger is bad, that a person is seen as having failed when they can't comply to the social ideal, and in turn, a person who dates a person who's bigger, by accepting it, has too in someway failed, or settled for something less than magazine perfect. It's never easy to be rejected for any reason, but fat women get used to it in their interactions with men sadly because it seems to be more socially acceptable to express disgust with fat than it is express other complaints about a person's physical appearance.
But while that's true, all of the fat women in my life have at least one story of men explaining to them that they could never date because of her fatness.
When I ran a matchmaking agency, I met a lot of men. Interesting in the respect that, it's surprising how, even those who are actively looking for love, are still so non-negotiable about what they require in a partner.